Can You Teach Someone How To Be A Leader? (Develops Others)

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And is leadership development worthwhile?

Leadership is defined as “a process of social influence in which one person can enlist the aid and support of others in the accomplishment of a common task.”

There are “leaders” who have social influence by the nature of their political power, their physical power, their monetary power, their title or their heritage.  They can threaten, cajole and manipulate.

Of course the leaders we’re interested in creating, and following, are those who “naturally” influence and inspire others.  Think of the individual in your company who is not a manager or supervisor, and yet people gravitate towards him/her and seek out their opinion or guidance.

A lot of leadership development programs focus on training individuals’ leadership skills.

Choose People’s list of leadership skills includes:

  • Ownership Thinking/Systems and Implications Thinking
  • Knowledge of the Numbers
  • Strategic and Innovative Problem Solving
  • Ability to Inspire, Influence and Motivate Others
  • Creation of a Culture of Accountability
  • Ability to have Kind, Candid and Constructive Conversations
  • Ability to Nurture/Mentor/Teach
  • Change Management
  • Foster Team Collaboration and Cooperation
  • Manage the Urgent to Accomplish the Strategic
  • Support Others in Being Their Best Selves
  • Communication and Integration of the Mission, Vision and Values

Can these be taught?  Yes.  Can these be learned?  Usually.

However skills alone don’t make a leader.  You could teach someone ALL of these skills – they could even master them, and yet they still wouldn’t BE a leader.  They could “do” leadership, but they wouldn’t necessarily be an influencer.  (Looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, but isn’t a duck.)

A leader is trusted and respected, both for what they do and for who they are – for their competency and their character.

Choose People’s list of character traits of a leader includes:

  • Self-Awareness
  • Leadership Mindset
  • Self-Inspired
  • Courage, Conviction and Confidence
  • Vulnerability and Grace
  • Whole Integrity and Authenticity
  • Other-Awareness/Emotional Intelligence
  • Interdependency Awareness
  • Charisma and Humility

Can these be taught?  Yes.  Can they be learned?  Sometimes.

Recently a client asked me, “What if someone really just doesn’t have what it takes to be a leader?” 

And my response was, “Don’t try to make them something they’re not.”

Keep in mind, many employees choose to be a leader in other areas of their lives and simply don’t desire to be a leader at work.

Not everyone wants to be a leader at work.  Thank goodness.

Is there a way to know before you invest in leadership development if an individual can learn the character traits and the skills?  There are several filters and key questions that can certainly help identify if someone is NOT a good candidate. However until you dig in with your real potential leaders, it’s hard to know who will be your “graduates.”  Note:  Anyone who tells you they can “make” one of your employees into a leader – run like the wind.

For a book chock full of leadership development tools and info, read Culture Works: How to Create Happiness in the Workplace.

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Kris Boesch is the CEO and Founder of Choose People, a company that transforms company cultures, increases employee happiness and boosts the bottom-line. She is a nationally renowned speaker and workplace culture expert.  Boesch is also the author of Culture Works: How to Create Happiness in the Workplace and developer of the Choose People 360° Culture Audit. Kris is also a proud mother, dancing diva and dog lover.

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Kris Boesch is the CEO and Founder of Choose People, a company that transforms company cultures, increases employee happiness and boosts the bottom-line. She is a nationally renowned speaker and workplace culture expert. Kris is also a proud mother, dancing diva and dog lover.Check out Kris's book "Culture Works: How to Create Happiness in the Workplace" at https://www.CultureWorksBook.com, for more fabulous leadership tips and tools.Learn more about Kris's company at https://www.ChoosePeople.com or book Kris to speak at your next event at https://www.KrisBoesch.com!